Wealthy people solve problems through efficient communication, while poor people act emotionally and use moral coercion.
September 15, 2025, 9:15 AM
The Essence of Being Poor #
- Self-righteous unilateral output. Speaking without listening; even if living to 100, thinking remains at a 10-year-old level.\
- Emotional and moral coercion through cold violence. Always acting “for your own good,” controlling others through familial ties and pitiable authority.\
- Inefficient communication. Too little useful information, too much chatter; a one-line issue may be explained in a hundred words without clarity. Time is wasted on idle talk.\
- Over time, all time is wasted on trivialities, leaving no room for growth. This inefficiency can be passed down generations, circulating like a virus.
The Essence of Efficient Communication for Wealthy People #
Core Principles of Communication #
- Goal-oriented: Every communication has a clear objective and stays focused on it.\
- Fact-oriented: Discussions are based on factual data, not emotions or intuition, and certainly not self-righteousness.\
- Efficiency-oriented: Value time, maximize information density, minimize communication cost.\
- Equality-oriented: Respect everyone’s viewpoints, avoid emotional or authoritative coercion.\
- Result-oriented: Focus on the outcome that communication produces, not on how lively the process is.
How to Practice in Real Life? Implementation Methodology #
- Awareness and acknowledgment: First, admit and accept the problem. Consciously observe whether these issues exist in your own communication with others.\
- Establish new rules:
- Clarify goals in communication
- Control emotions and focus on facts
- Set time limits, avoid idle chatter
- Respect others’ viewpoints
- Focus on solutions, not the problem itself\
- Practice structured expression\
- Develop listening skills\
- Give feedback and improve\
- Create a supportive communication environment
Potential Benefits of Efficient Communication #
- Quickly build trust and understanding
- Effectively integrate different resources and abilities
- Identify and solve problems in a timely manner
- Seize fleeting opportunities
September 15, 2025, 1:17 PM
Immature individuals cannot distinguish between self and viewpoint. They tend to take their viewpoints personally; if those viewpoints are challenged, it triggers self-panic. Mature individuals treat viewpoints as viewpoints and are willing to correct or change them at any time.
September 15, 2025, 1:26 PM
When you refuse, others know your boundaries.
When you express, others know your viewpoint.
When you assert, others know your needs.
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